Quote Quoting ktm2008
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First off as far as his biological mother she considers me his mother. Secondly visitation is in my discretion I do not have to let them as per my papers... And no it is not for an emotional need. And maybe saying that he caused my miscarriage is misstating… He broke out of prison and threatened the life of me and my children yes I consider that him causing my , what my OB/GYN called a stress induced miscarriage... I have them until the day that he turns 18 unless the court changes... Also his mother is backing everything 100% her right has not been terminated so that if something does happen she can say she wants that is my husband's cousin not the non-biological birth certificate father.

Let me be a little more blunt.

You cannot state that the stress suffered had anything to do with either your miscarriage, or the presence of custody issues. You will be slammed down in a heartbeat.

You're not understanding the legalities here.

If Dad - and questioning paternity at this point is NOT going to happen - wants visitation, he WILL be able to file for a specific visitation plan. Mom can't play musical daddies and neither can you.

Mom is going to have a NO SAY WHATSOEVER in what Dad - LEGAL DAD - wants to do.

So to summarise? If Dad - the guy on the birth certificate - wants to see his child, he's going to see his child. You need to wrap your head around that.