First off as far as his biological mother she considers me his mother. Secondly visitation is in my discretion I do not have to let them as per my papers... And no it is not for an emotional need. And maybe saying that he caused my miscarriage is misstating… He broke out of prison and threatened the life of me and my children yes I consider that him causing my , what my OB/GYN called a stress induced miscarriage... I have them until the day that he turns 18 unless the court changes... Also his mother is backing everything 100% her right has not been terminated so that if something does happen she can say she wants that is my husband's cousin not the non-biological birth certificate father.