My question involves a child custody case from the State of: oregon
Trying to make a long story short, my ex husband as of 1/2/14 moved out of state and contacted our daughter on 4/10 to let her know he got a job transfer. That is the last she/we heard from him. We know where he is; however he never bothered to tell our daughter goodbye, nothing. I had to get his address from the courts as he would not tell me.
We have joint custody with me as residential parent. We were separated since July '13 and he moved 4-5 houses away. He had every wednesday and every other Friday night. He offered for her to see him a couple of Wednesdays and she declined, however he never offered to take advantage of visits on Fridays as he was gone every weekend or had his new friend over. He has been child support so no issues there yet. Paperwork states that he can never force our daughter to see him or spend time. Reason for this is prior to filing, he totally ignored her, stood her up for dinners, school engagements etc. There are alot of hard feelings. With him deciding to transfer and move, should I attempt to go for full legal custody or would it be to my benefit to leave as is. Again, he last contacted her on 4/10 and it is now 5/11. She doesn't want to call or text him or basically have anything to do with him. I try to encourage, but I will not force. Any advice would be helpful.

