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    Default How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

    My question involves child support in the State of: nj

    hello,

    I am a non custodial parent paying child support. At the last hearing the mother provided a $1,200 a month child care bill.

    However, I did not ask for a copy of that and I do not know if this bill Is legitimate, accurate and true!
    how do I verify that this bill is reliable?

    She might not even taking the child to child care! and I would even now.
    I want to find out before the next court date if she is really taking the child to a child facility or not. If I wait for the court date it will be too late.

    Please I need your help to resolve this: should I ask the mother directly where she is taking the baby? or what else can I do?

    thank you

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    Default Re: Child Care Expense: How to Verify She is Not Cheating

    What happened to the agreement you and Mom wanted?

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    Default Re: Child Care Expense: How to Verify She is Not Cheating

    if I post this question, obviously the agreement is not in place.

    I still need an answer to my question, dogmatique pls advice

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    Default Re: Child Care Expense: How to Verify She is Not Cheating

    Mom provided a bill.

    The court accepted the bill.

    Have you bothered to ask Mom for the name of the facility?

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    Default Re: How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

    I diddnt ask her but I know is a private facilility, a. Family

    And also she has family coming and help baby sit

    Why would I pay if the kis is prob not even in child
    Care? Its not fair!

    Pls advice

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    Default Re: How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

    Why is it that as a father you don't know who is providing day to day care for your child? How does that work? If there wasn't a question regarding the cost, would it matter to you who was caring for your child?

    That question was rhetorical because you've already proven what the answer was.

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    Default Re: How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

    why??? because I don't have contact with the mother. how does that work?? it works that I have little contact with the mother

    and the judge did not scan the receipt of child care

    that how it work dude! now I don't need your pathetic comment I need an answer!

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    Default Re: How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

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    why??? because I don't have contact with the mother. how does that work?? it works that I have little contact with the mother

    and the judge did not scan the receipt of child care

    that how it work dude! now I don't need your pathetic comment I need an answer!
    We don't need your attitude. Go pay someone to put up with it.

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    Default Re: How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

    oh shut up.

    we don't need YOUR poor attitude as well. pls do not waste your time and interfere with my post. keep off.

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    Default Re: How to Get Proof of Actual Child Care Expenses

    Quote Quoting panama25
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    oh shut up.

    we don't need YOUR poor attitude as well. pls do not waste your time and interfere with my post. keep off.

    When you are given the rights to determine who may and may not answer your posts, let us know.

    In the meantime, do let us know Mom's contact details. I'm sure she wouldn't mind some help.

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