Your daughter doesn't have the right to child support money. You do.
Your ex doesn't have to utilize his visitation, it's his right to do so, but he's not obligated to.
There is someone on this forum right now whose ex wife owes him almost 200k in back child support. There are people who, myself included who have exes who are well into the double digits in support arrears and I worked in the same system and at one point, the same courthouse that my child support case was being heard. However, the biggest difference between you and I, is that I don't care. I don't exert the time and/or energy in giving a damn because I'd rather watch the ceiling fans spin in my house.
A person who is hell bent in not paying support, won't. Period. That might not be the answer you want to hear, but that's the answer.

