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So, how much time does your boyfriend spend around your child? That is a critical issue. If you are mostly spending time with your boyfriend during the time dad has the child, its pretty irrelevant. If the boyfriend is virtually living at your house, even when the child is there and even though he has his own place, that is another story.
My boyfriend works first shift and I work 2nd. My sister watches my son while I work. We see each other couple times a week...go to dinner, movie, act. Our schedules don't allow much more. And yes, I searched his record and he has multiple theft charges spanning over ten years. So, yes, past caught up with him. Of the couple of times we see each other, my son may one of the times if we all go to eat together. The majority of our contact is through our phones. Also, my sons father and mother who he resides with has multiple DUI charges with my sons father having a drug charge as well and criminal trespassing. He "claims" he cannot cook, clean, do laundry, add or subtract, ect. And is collecting ssi for this.....kind of makes me wonder how he would explain to a judge that our son is better off with him because I have boyfriend a rarely see who is a felon.