Hi I desperately need some help or advice.. my ex just served me with papers taking me back to modify a court ruling. He has not seen his daughter in 3 1/2 years and all of a sudden now wants joint custody, summer months, he lives in GA I live in ME, and no child support for the time she is with him. He moved out of state after he was released from jail. He was charged with domestic abuse, negligence and endangerment of a child among a few others. The courts gave me sole parental rights and responsibility and he was only able to see his daughter after extensive counseling and her and his counselor AGREE and then start with visitation. Well we can not have contact as a PFA order and i have no idea if he has done his counseling. his now fiance, of 7 months or so, sent me a letter wanting to takle her for 10 days..hello! ( plus his fiance has 2 children that live in ME she lives in GA and doesnt have custody of her children!!) she hasnt seen him in years and now he wants to just take her...I dont think so, plus it was her firast week of kindergarten. Also he has not paid child support as he has been ordered, recently I have been receiving a few small amounts and the only time he sends anything is when we go to court and within 3 weeks it stops again! What are my rights and what can I and should I do?? Plus his family is very negative and its all my fault that he abused us...I dont want her subject to that...I have never once spoke ill about her father. She has asked about him 6 times in 3 1/2 years......

