Of course you can't lie on official documents.
But with that said, even if Dad (whomever that may be) was around he would have trouble (generally speaking) arguing against a name change, because the child has never had his name to begin with.
Still, you have to go through court. You may have to do a "john doe" service though.
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It would appear that Mom doesn't actually know who the father is...

