Thanks for the response its been a while since I last followed up in the topic. I am just worried, there is more to it I mean if a guy is mentally stable they would wish the best for your future on your relationship and move on, but this guy seems like he would be stalking and makes me uncomfortable however (an update on the issue) they talked things through and it seems that the guy simply understood and moved on (however I am still not 100 percent assured everything will be fine in the future I just hope so). The only domestic violence was when she told me he hit her she never did anything other than break up. Either way I really appreciate the post "tophat" the civil harrasment order how would that work? I know he hasnt done anything extreme yet, but I just want to be prepared for anything he might do and take it into account.

