My question involves a child custody case from the State of: North Carolina
Ok, this is a lot. So here goes. My cousin married this man that had two kids. The youngest is no longer in their custody, while the oldest is. About 6 months ago I came for a visit to my grandmothers, whom they live with. What I seen was unbelievable. At the time, he was nine years old. I seen heavy verbal abuse from both parents, the kid is actually very scared of them, and I haven't gotten along with the parents that great because of their choices. Since then, I have decided to try my best to adopt the child. At first, I just asked if I could adopt, I was met with some hostillity, but, I was determined. So I just flat out said, what would it take. My cousin wanted me to pay her $3000 and she would sign papers over to me. I was actually very shocked. I still have those messages as proof for future reference. Now the kid is 10 years old, me and the parents got in to it over another matter. Now I want to take them to court. I first talked to a guy from CPS in a different county, where I live. He told me to file a report but start with the BIG things first, like her trying to sell me the kid. Here are the biggies.
Trying to sell me the kid. He is 10, and they still bath him, as in they will not let him bath his self. Personally, I think there some sexual abuse going because I have seen them bath together, the child and the parent, appropiate for a toddler maybe, but not a 10 year old. My sister-in-law that lives across the street has caught the parents watching porn, with the child. They keep the child in the bedroom %90 of the time, he can't go outside to play, or visit with company. They decide when he eats or drinks, even if he is hungry or not; like if he isn't hungry, they force him with yelling and threats to eat.
Comparatively. Me vs the parents.
I have a full time job, I am in college full time. I am almost finished with my 2 year degree in Auto Systems Tech. I have no criminal record. I can support myself. I have a drivers license. I have two vehicles with access to a 3rd when I need 4wd. I am Christian raised. I am GREAT with kids and I can show many statements from parents that I am. I did have my own place, but I am currently living with parents. The only negative about me from a official paperwork viewpoint, is my driving record. The usual speeding tickets. Nothing major.
The parents, always depend on others. No job. No education. No license. No vehicle. They do not have their own place. Living off of welfare.
I am planning on going to my grandmothers to stay for about a month or two, to help a different matter, but while I am there, I will be working on building me a strong case. I want to take the parents to court, and get FULL custody of this child, without the chance of them ever getting him back. This kid ADORES me and has even said he wants to go home with me, and it just urkes me there is so much politics involved.
Help. Advice. Do I need a lawyer?

