My question involves a relationship in the state of: WASHINGTON, THURSTON COUNTY
MY X-PARTNER AND ME WERE TOGETHER FOR 16 YEARS, WE'VE BEEN SPLIT UP SINCE MARCH 2013. WHEN WE WERE SPLITTING UP, WE PUT TOGETHER A LIST OF PROPERTY SEPERATING EVERYTHING BETWEEN US. (ALTHOUGH, THAT WAS BEFORE ALL THE "DRAMA & DESTRUCTION" HE CAUSED).
QUESTION IS THIS- "HOW DO I GET HIM TO COME GET HIS STUFF LEGALLY?""WITHOUT A LAWYER BECAUSE NO MONEY LEFT"
HE SEEMS TO THINK THAT HE CAN SIT BACK AND WAIT BECAUSE HE HAS NO WAY TO GET STUFF NOR PLACE TO PUT IT. I OWN THE PROPERTY AND HOUSE, AND EVEN THOU IT'S GOING INTO FORECLOSURE HE DOESN'T CARE BECAUSE HIS STUFF IS STORED AND SAFE AND THE FORECLOSURE PROCESS CAN TAKE A LONG TIME.. HE'S ALREADY THROWING A FIT BECAUSE I REFUSE TO GIVE HIM A FEW THINGS THAT WE BOUGHT FOR OUR SON, AND SON USES AT MY HOUSE (I EVEN OFFERED TO SHARE ITEM'S)...
WE HAVE 2 SEMI-TRAILERS, 1 IS 80% FILLED WITH ALL HIS FISH & MISC STUFF, BUT IT ISN'T IN GOOD SHAPE OF A TRAILER (BACK DOORS DON'T LOCK), THE OTHER IS EMPTY AND IT IS IN BETTER SHAPE.. DUE TO FORECLOSURE PROCESS, I NEED TO START PACKING, AND GOING THRU OUR BARN TO MOVE ALL THE KIDS STUFF, AND MISC OUT. I TOLD HIM I WAS GOING TO START PACKING MY STUFF INTO THE EMPTY TRAILER, HE IS UPSET BECAUSE HE WANTS IT BUT THE OTHER IS ALREADY LOADED WITH HIS STUFF..
I ALSO DON'T WANT TO BE MEAN AND TELL HIM HE HAS TO DO IT IN 1 DAY, OR GET IT ALL WITHIN 30 DAYS BUT I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING.. (TO GET ALL THE STUFF WOULD TAKE AT LEAST A COUPLE DAYS, AND THE STUFF IN BARN ISN'T EVEN SEPERATED YET).. PS- I'D HAVE TO SEPERATE, BASED ON I HAVE A ORDER OF PROTECTION AND HE'S NOT TO BE AROUND ME.
SO NEEDLESS TO SAY- HOW DO I GET HIM TO GET HIS STUFF? ............. HOW LONG DO I GIVE HIM? ............... DO I TELL HIM WHICH TRAILER HE CAN HAVE?
(I DON'T WANT TO BE A "B", BUT I NEED TO START GOING THRU, ORGANIZING, AND PACKING THE KIDS AND MY STUFF SO IT'S NOT A RUSH)![]()

