My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: pa
I am a father of 2 children. And I was wondering if anyone could help put me in the right direction. My wife and I are going to be getting a divorce. She has told me she nolonger loves me. Thats fine. She has been having an affair for like six months now. Lying to me everytime I confronted her. There has been alot of different men and mental abuse, from my wife. That really isnt the issue. My main concern are my children. I have been their primary care giver. Their mother loves my kids but when it comes to mothering, well lets just say her cell phone is more impotant. I am scared that if I left the home my children will be in danger of neglect and abuse from her older children, who tease and torture them for their amusement. My wife lets my daughter sleep in the bed with her since she was a baby. I sleep on the couch and have been through out our marriage. Now ive been informed that when I do leave she is going to move this man in my home. I dont want my daughter to be in the bed with a straung man. My wifes brother is a fall down drunk who is abusive. The only reason he hasnt done anything is because I am here. I am honestly scared for their well being and health if I were ti leave them behind with the mother. Please help me. This is not about the divorce. I am genuinely concerned for my children and know they are better off with me. They will recive the absolute best while in my care. What also bothers me is my wife was with a married man at the end of January, the only reason she stopped was because gis wife found out. Now she is with a different man whim she plans on moving in. While she was with the married man she has been giving him money, while our heating oil ran out, the electric bill is over $900., her brother, the drunk does not give any money. While we are drowning in debt she is giving away money. Oh yea, I am still in the home. I dont know what to do. There is a whole lot that is to be said but I cant write it all down. Please ask questions, I will answer them. I do want ti be the best for the kids. I dont even care about the divorce. This isnt about pay back . My children are what matters and that is my only concern. Please help me. I know mothers are always the ones who win custody, even though its not always right. I want to raise them the right way.

