My question involves criminal law for the state of: Washington
The court issued a no contact order so I am not allowed to contact this girl who I've been dating for a couple months.
First of all, there was never a crime committed against her. Her most recent ex has a problem with me and created a huge situation which caused me to receive this order from the court.
Secondly, the girl keeps on trying to contact me. I guess you could say she is stalking me, and sending me messages. She shows up frequently at my place of residence, and one time was even waiting inside because my roommate let her in! (He didn't know about the order). Luckily, she has never noticed I was there, because the moment I saw that she was waiting around my place, I just went somewhere else for a few hours and she left.
Thirdly, for the situation in hand, I know she is trying to contact me because her friends, and even family have tried to contact me explaining things she wants to say to me, and that is order shouldn't be in place.
So far, I have done a good job avoiding, but I don't like not even being able to go home. Isn't there anything I can do about this?

