My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: OH

We have a grandson taken from our custody and put in foster care. We are disputing everything CPS has claimed, and have evidence on our side. That has yet to go to court.

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Right now, we have been fighting CPS because they cancelled the mental health care we had arranged and they failed to get another in place until 6 weeks after they took him. Presumably because we are getting vocal about their neglect, our boy OD'd 5 weeks after they took him!, they are getting crappy with us and doing stuff to make us look bad in the eyes of the court.

The latest thing is getting his personal items to him. Up until last week they would request specific items. Right now, the boy has 2 pairs of street/gym shoes, 1 pair of running shoes, enough jeans for a full week, enough underwear for a week, pj's, Tshirts for a week, flannel/sweatshirts for a week, 1 pair of gym shorts, plus miscellaneous extras. Now they're claiming I haven't been 'cooperative' in getting him clothing. I do know when they requested the shorts, my husband was confined to our house due to knee surgery and I couldn't leave him alone for 2 days. The first day I could leave him, I took the clothing. I found it sat in the CPS office for 6 days before being taken to our boy.
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Since then, they started using a court order to get specific items. CPS is playing games. Boy OD'd on Nov 25, went to the hospital, released 1 week later and moved to a new foster home on Dec 2. I found out this order was started by the first foster family where he had not resided since Nov 25. On Dec 5 we got a court order to send ALL clothing(summer and winter) and ALL shoes. I have to send a number of musical instruments that he claims are his. The clothing request is ridiculous, he'll end up with 9 pairs of shoes, from dress shoes to hiking shoes to running shoes, to street shoes, to 2 pairs of work boots he uses on our farm. We'll box up the clothing, it will fill about 6 garbage size bags. I don't know if the present family even wants all this stuff!

There are 3 instruments he is requesting that do not belong to him. 1 is my husbands and 2 were purchased for all the grandkids, whichever wanted to learn it. 1 he did learn, but it is a valuable, vintage instrument. I took away the privilege to play those 2 instruments before CPS took him because of damage he did to 2 other instruments at the time.

My question: Do I just file a motion to the same court that issued this order? Do I just request the order to be modified to give the boy the instruments that belong to him exclusively? My daughter is the mother of the other grandkids and will vouch for the fact that our grandson does not own all these things. Do I include an affidavit with her statement? For the record, the musical items that will be sent are worth about $3,000; the items that are not his are worth about $1,500. Who is responsible if damage is done while in foster care?