hi thanks for the fast reply.
landlord knows, he's on my side. actually the whole building is - given her behavior.
My problem is finacing this. I do not have the funds. Anyone interested or know of someone on a pro-bono or payments? Who knows - I am versed in several internet languages - could do a website :-D
But seriously, this is what is holding me up. No funds at my disposal. things are super tight since she doesnt work.
ps actual marriage date is 2006. That is good news to hear about the court. I am assuming she will have to do all the leg work for "convincing the court" and "contesting it" is this correct?

