My question involves a marriage in the state of:Oklahoma
Married for 13 years , seperated for 3 now.
During the 10 years together i was not employed . He was/is a truck driver at the end , during the first 7-8 years he earned under 10k per year.
2008 He wanted to buy a new car , i was opposed as im a very live on what you have in your pocket type.
His credit was declined , mine was approved with him as a co-signer(despite me having no income)
I have texts both before and after the seperation of him agreeing that this debt is his responsiblity and he wouldnt ruin my credit.
The car was in default before the seperation , he was out of work 3 months , got a job and sent me a text stating he wanted a divorce.
I sold the few possessions in the house to rent a 1 room apartment for me and my 15 yr old daughter and got a job , and have worked since.
The car was repo'd approximately 4 months after the seperation.
I make minimum wage and dont have a dime to spare.
He has been engaged 4 times ( just from fb status) since then.
He has filed for divorce with court coming very soon , but i havent been served.
This is my first and only marriage / divorce and i have absolutely no idea what to do.
There is lots of ugly stuff that i wont drag out , infidelity on his part , poor choices on internet viewing and years of lies.
1) What happens if im not served?
2) Is there any way for him to take responsiblity of this car so that i dont risk garnishment and homelessness .
3) What are my next moves?
4) Is there any free/low income source of representation that would help me.

