My question involves name change laws in the State of: Virginia; Maine
I reside in Virginia with my husband. My ex husband (and father of my children) resides in Maine. He has not seen them in almost two years by his own choice; I have full custody and he was granted visitation, though he chose to not take it. My family moved to Virginia (husband's home state) in April. Both my sons want to change their last name to mine and my husband's. I cannot afford a lawyer; though I am very well-spoken and can handle court, I don't know all the laws and procedures. Will Virginia court have jurisdiction over this where my ex lives in Maine? I know I can petition a name change at the court, but will I have to notify my ex? He doesn't care but his family does, so I know he wouldn't just sign the papers and agree. Thanks for any help.

