Oh, I'm sorry if I did not make the situation clear. Our son has not been born yet. I am planning on taking a DNA test if possible prior to the due date, and haveing paternity understood on his first birthday. The question was asked in order for me to determine what conversations I will have to have in between now and December with his mother. Ultimately he will carry my last name, she is just opposed to it. No big deal. I was merely hoping that was a battle I didnt even have to fight during her highly emotional state. She is a very intelligent and rational woman, however, pregnancy has stripped her of her usual logic. I'm sure she will agree once this is all over and she understands my reason. But I guess I have to make my case before hand. Wish me luck!

