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Dark_Angel
In is infinitely interesting to me that in the most extreme cases, for example the two doctors that engaged in oral intercourse, and the female retained the result and impregnated herself, the man had no legal recourse. Yet it is a correct statement that women have significant control over choices affecting them both. I cannot control anything that happens after conception, and this bothers me.
I am equally surprised at the level of vehemence contained herein. I have taken responsibility for my actions thus far. In this specific instance, a very recent development, I am...unsatisfied with the entire situation. The replies seem to indicate that I have done something underhanded. My not being identified as the father wasn't my choice. I took care of my obligations as I saw them. And I take care of my children of course.
Men can be trapped. But now my thread asking for advice from a legal standpoint has been hijacked into some sort of moral counseling. I saw no references whatsoever to law, but certainly plenty of finger wagging.
If that is the basis of this forum, then I clearly came to the wrong place.