My question involves collection proceedings in the State of: California
I recently met this girl, which asked me to help her out. We went out a few times. She planned to go to university and needed $30,000 for her tuition fees. I decided to help her out with a loan from my 401k.
2 weeks after she had the money, her personality changed and she emotionally blackmailed me till i decided to leave her. After i asked her if she gives me the money back, she says no and made fun of me. She is convinced i have no way to get it back from her.
I didnt set up a loan agreement, because i trusted her.
Any chance i will ever see it again?

