State of CA:
My husband and his ex have had difficulties in the past about custody. There was about $10K spent on our part to keep her as little as possible because of the type of person/mother she was/is. After awhile things cooled down and she seemed normal and everyone was being cordial.
Today, she dropped her phone in our driveway. My step son had a football game and we were out of town for family. She stopped by our house and picked up his stuff for football. We got there about an hour later to get some water and cleaned before leaving for the game (across the street). I didn't the phone until we were leaving. I saw it and picked it up. I didn't know it was hers until I opened it up. I read her text messages because honestly, I was nosey. But what I didn't expect was what I read.
She talks about her addiction to pain killers (vicodin, Norco). These aren't her prescriptions. She has about 3 drug dealers that she gest them from and from what it sounds like she hooks people up with pills as well.
This last Friday, yesterday, she had the PGE (electricity) turned off for non payment and scraped money just enough to get by. She has messages in there about her sleeping while her 10 year old watches her 4 year old. There have been times where my step son has had to watch the 4 year old (when the 4 year old was even just months old [changing her, getting her a bottle, and entertaining her until mom got up) because his mom was sleeping.
She has messages in there about hiding pills from her husband and talking to someone about blood, veins, blue veins and red veins. I don't know if this is in reference to shooting up or what. This was a problem when husband and her were married. She wanted to do drugs to "wake up" and he didn't like that. This was mentioned in court in the beginning but because she hasn't been arrested and charged with any drugs then it was a no go.
Is there anything my husband can do? I mean, things have been going fine when we thought things were fine but obviously there is a bunch of shit going on. And I really hate for my husband to stir the pot and then it backfire on us.