My question involves a child custody case from the State of: NJ. My boyfriend and his ex had a bad relationship. Long story short, Dyfs got involved and the mom was only allowed supervised visitation. The child turned 18 and dyfs walked away, but the problems were still there. Him and I had custodial custody for 3 years and kept a good routine and school schedule, the whole time The mom did not pay or keep a schedule for visits, which you cant do with someone with autism. After 3 years of harassment from the mom, we allowed the child to return to her and her prior school, which she can attend until 21. The mom recently filed and is receiving child support. How do we file for structured visitation that will be enforced since mom cant be trusted? I guess we gave no recourse for credit for the 3 years she didnt pay us? Do we pay support the rest of her life or until she is 21?
We had to block our home and work phones due to harassing calls and texts from her at all hours of the day and night. The old neighbors have restraining orders against her and she filed false sexual harassment charges against us, that were thrown out-to try and keep us away. She lives 2 hours away abd would never be home when we had a pick up or drop off. She is literally crazy but the child wants her mom and and we cant keep her from her, neither parent has guardianship. Please help.