My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Massachusetts
My child's father wants to move slightly over 200 miles away in another state. Our court order states he can take our child Saturday afternoons to Sunday evening, almost the same order as his other child. Well, he wants to bring her to his house Friday nights to Sunday night. I told him it was ok as long as I could keep her 1 weekend a month. He agreed. I also told him I won't be providing any transportation, he also agreed. We go back to court October 23rd to see the judge. If he requests I provide transportation 1 way will they give that to him? I have 2 other children & do not want to spend my Friday nights driving 7-8 hours & I work Sundays so it's impossible for me to spend my Sundays driving that many hours. He hasn't moved yet bc we have court in October, he said he's going to move right after Halloween. Also, the court order says nothing about taking a child out of state for visits. We currently live in the same city.
I wanted to clarify the reason I say he agreed then I'm asking questions about if he brings it up in court...
He had also agreed that I could bring our child on vacation to Florida & he agreed then when we were arguing about money that he owes me he threatened to not let her go to Florida... He's unpredictable when he gets angry & I will be asking the court to increase his child support to the court ordered guidelines on that day. Him & I had an agreement I would allow $40 a week less in child support if he gave me some $ every week to pay back what he owes & as of now, 4 months later I haven't received a penny, so I will be making him angry when we go to court that day.