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aroundtheworld
If I can only keep the several $$$$ in my account I think I will be fine without a spousal support, because that money will put food on the table and roof over our head untill I get on my feet. But I don't know yet how keeping that money will affect the divorce settlement.
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He asked me to transfer the money again! I didn't say a word. I am thinking of having a heart to heart talk with him and tell him that I am planning to keep the money. Or, I will transfer the money if he promises in writing with his signature notarized that he will provide spousal support & child support: House/rent, car, medical insurance/expenses for both kids and I and grocery. Does this sound reasonable. Any suggestion?
I am pretty sure we will split our residence and car. I will keep two lots I bought with my own money pre-kids.
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All his assets are owned by his irrevocable living trust. I imagine that it would be difficult to touch those even if we don't have a pre nup. One asset in the trust he bought after we got married all others prior to meeting me.