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echeverry16
My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Carlifornia
Ex and I have been separated since Jan 2012. Since early 2013 I have had my son 2 days a week, then went to 3 times a week and now i have him 7 days every 2 weeks because of my work schedule. I have him 50% of the time right now, am giving her child support money and on top of it offer to pay 50% of anything my son needs or 100% of it if she cant afford it. Ex still lives with parents, got fired last october and quit her most recent job a few weeks ago. My son doesnt have a bed at her house because he sleeps with his grandparents and there is 6 kids, 5 adults ( 1 pregnant) in a 4 bedroom house which some of the kids have to sleep on the floor in the living room. I live with girlfriend and her 2 kids. My son and my girlfriends son share a room with their own bed each, and the other girl has her own room. My son is in kindergarten at the time and has no problem with the commute to his school which is about 25 minutes from me. My ex is trying everything in her power for me to not have 50%. She found an agreement signed and notarized from feb 2009 of how custody would be because we were going to get a divorce back then and because i was being deployed to japan for 2 years because of the military. She never filed the papers and i ended up coming back 6 months after i left due to injuries and we got back together until Jan 2012. Can she use that agreement against me and can she keep from 50/50 happening?