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kempeck
About 2 weeks after the decree was signed, and the threats started coming in. I went over all of the documentation, and noticed that.
llworking, you have been nothing but offensive since I asked my question.
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After having her fight me on every little issue (getting the kids passports so she can move to Spain, and her not letting me have 4 solid weeks of visitation over summer are two of the bigger ones) cost me $20,000. I had no problem with the state calculated Child Support. That is what I was paying the year BEFORE the divorce was finalized. I currently have 2 jobs, and need assistance to eat. I'm lucky enough to be staying in a friends guest efficiency, or my car would be my place of residence (did that for almost 2 months, it sucks). My ex lives with her parents, rent free, with the van that I paid off, and a job making what I do at my first job. She has stated to me, more than once, "When that 3 year wait is up, I'm going to take you back to court and have the child support recalculated to include your second job." WTF? I'm eating Ramon, and peanut butter sandwiches when I eat. TRUST ME when i say it's not about trying to take anything from her, it's about trying to keep the status quo on the settlement. I'm $15,000 in debt, and have collectors calling me ever day. I don't get to see my kids 2-3 times a year as she's moved them 10 hour drive away. I can't afford to get them for the 3 day weekends that I'm allotted for. I did that once, and only got to spend about 10-12 hours with them before I had to get them back. They were miserable and I hated doing that to them.
llworking, how am I the bad guy in this?
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Once again, llworking, I do not want anything from her! Her money, her car, house, or anything other than time with our children and the ability to live my life without the threat of immanent bankruptcy. I want to prevent the use of the system from taking from me what LITTLE I have left. I just need to know, is there anything I can use when she comes after me again?