So which is it? A voluntary that was changed to involuntary, or an involuntary that possibly needs very restricted parental involvement/interference?
I know, from personal experience as a hospital security officer, that it takes significant incident(s) to culminate in the removal a parent or close relative from a facility. Even moreso if they have to be physically removed from the facility.
I have a bad habit of calling it as I see it, and as I see it you have portrayed a remarkably slanted narrative laced with at least one example of misrepresentation.
Your first steps should've been taken toward the facility administrators while foregoing advice solicitation from strangers on an anonymous internet forum.

