I never agreed to adoption, she told me that was what she was choosing to do because I would not go back with her and help her raise the child. It would not have worked out and even tried getting back with her and working things out once we gave over our rights to her mother, but it didn't work out like I knew it wouldn't.
However, yes everything is correct. I apologize for making two threads but was unsure of which one it should have been in. I am guessing this one should have been where I started and will delete the other thread to make it easier.
And thank you, I figured it would be a stretch but was unsure since the mother also had not legally taken any actions either. Thank you for the help, I appreciate it.