
Quoting
sevco108
Proof of possible abuse: I have over 40 pictures of bruising scratches etc. My son showed up with bruises that looked like handprints. I've asked him who hurt him he said daddy. One of the women who has babysat my son noticed the bruising and asked him who hurt him, he responded with daddy. His father has also abused me in the past. My son showed up at my house with a bleeding bottom from severe diaper rash. When I confronted my husband, he told me "I don't change his diapers". My son won't go near my husband when I drop him off with "daddy".
Losing his father: out of three years "daddy" has only been around a little over one year. Part of this due to deployments part because he won't have anything to do with his son unless he has to.
I realize that people are very biased toward their own points of view. There are several details I am leaving out because I am trying to be objective and concise.