I moved out of state with my child 2 years ago with verbal permission from the father and a promise he would also move. He changed his mind and didn't move and now his new girlfriend wants the child to move in with them. Since I didn't get his written permission. (i just noticed that it was required when he asked) will he automatically get custody? She has been going to school here but my younger child (5 yrs)has emotional issues and has bitten and punched her (we have him in counseling) I am afraid he will get custody on the younger childs abuse alone. we have only custody papers since we had never been married.

