My question involves criminal law for the state of: California
A while back me and child's father had some issues and his parole issued a restraining that states that he has to stay away from me. Well two years have passed and we are trying to attend family therapy with him and kids so we can work on getting things fixed to be able to co-parent. I have been going to church for some time and he has started going for sometime to as well. This is stopping us from co-parenting. I really hope someone could give me advise. The only thing stopping him from getting off parole is this as well. He was caught once around me, but we did not even think nothing of it because I droppes the RO order two years ago. We can not even go to our daughter korkore or or cheer leading events without risking him being in trouble. my daughter wants he father there and there is nothing that I can do. this is stopping us from working on our co-parenting skills. We were young and dumb and now that we are older we are seeing where we have messed up I really just want to do what is right it has been two years now and we have been able to get a long with no arguments or violence. I just want what is right for them and for my baby father to be able to stay out of prison it would be silly if we were discuss about our children in person and because he is not able to be around me because of our past he would go back to prison. Time has went by we are mature and ready to seek family counseling to move on and fix our issues for our children.So how do I get parole to remove the restraining order that he is not to be around me. I dropped it in the family law courts about two years ago, but they parole will not drop it... just want a normal life for my family.

