My question involves a marriage in the state of:florida

was told today by my attorney that I will most likely have to make a "contribution" to my wifes attorneys fee's

because I make more than she does.......

so because I make more than she does....I could end up losing the house
if I have to pay her attorney fees...alimony...and child support....
how am I suppose to pay the mortgage on the house our 3 children were raised in?

she doesn't know how to manage her money...this is my fault?

is there anything I can do about this?