My question involves an eviction in the state of North Carolina, I am a current renter which started on 4/1/2013. I and my family put down a total of 34 hundred dollar and some change for me to get the place, now the thing is that before giving the money they(the rental company) told me that my credit was kind of shabby and that I wouldnd be able to get the place. But I then told them I would give them what they would ask for in price and I asked them to run my then boyfriend credit and it was worst than mine. So They called me back and said that I could Have the three bed three bath home, but when they told me to come sign the lease I had to bring the boyfriend too. When I got there I brought my dad and the young lady said that I wa suppose to bring in the boyfriend. I asked her why and she said so that he could sign. I said that I did want him to be a co-leaser and she said that he would be an occupant. So I went and got him and took my father back, when I sat down her all the money from My account and the money my family gave me I put on a money order in my name. He did apply anything towards any of the move. After being in the house for a couple days there has been nothing but agurments that he would pick, he didn't want to take jobs that were offered to him, did want to pick or clean up, pay for any thing that the house needed, he backed into the garage putting a dent in the door, he was just make my kids and my life hell. After aguring everyday and him running to my family to make me look evil, we made an agreement that he would leave in three weeks(now about to be one week on tuesday). Yesterday I went to my mothers house to take the girls to visit, when I got back home I found my clothes had been pushed over. When He came back in the house, he came up the stairs stopping and running with his clothes in hand on a hanger. I aked Him what was he doing, he said dont say s@!# to me and ran back down stairs. So I followed (not saying any thing) he left the door opened and he was calling the police saying I wouldn't let him put his clothes in the closet. So I called my family to verify and witness what I was going through. They got there and ask me what was going on I told them I had Just literally walked in the house, I hadn't seen him all day except when he was sleep on the couch. They did see him act out and show his colors a bit and almost restrained him. He was talking and getting beside himself. But then they turned back and said if we have to come back out here both of you are going to jail. I did tell them about the threats of him saying that he could do something very babd to me and that he had his mason bothers watching my every move ect. My sister asked me to gather some of my things to go and stay with my mom till we could figure something out, but he is still there with everything I own at his fingertips. the police told me to get a retraining order form the court but they said unless I can show physical evidence they can't do it. But try and get it from the civil courts. So back at square one I need help, how do I get him out without damaging my self, my credit and my life? oh they did say that I could file for civil eviction but I don't know what I am doing or how to go about it.

