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    Default How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    My question involves a child custody case from the State of: CA

    I have been in supervised visitation for 2 years and 3 months. I had misdemeanor domestic violence to my ex 2 and half years ago. But no any hurt to my son and no restraining order to my son either.

    The supervisor was writing letters to the court several issues:
    1. did not watch out toy age adequacy to my son.
    2. I did not follow her advise to set limit to my child's activity such as when my son got sleepy he began to attack other child. What hell is this theory?
    3. I had no response to my child's activity. This is obviously lying.

    I can not let this supervisor's lying continues to ruin my bonding between my son and me. I want to write a motion to the judge to change this supervisor for several reasons:
    1. the supervisor's organization is closed last year for their budget issue. I want my son to be supervised by some currently active organization.
    2. I am not satisfied with her service. Every weekend it is very hard to schedule the appointment, she always call back several hours later to make the appointment since she is working only part time because her organization is closed.
    3. She continues to mention the same thing happened one years ago in the latest report and lie in the report.
    4. She told me more than 3 times not going to court since it is wasting of time and money. She told me she sets up the rule in the court.

    I want to hear you guys advises on this. I never imagine that in this democracy county that some court ordered supervisor can make use of a near 3 years old boy to make money. Can I ask my son to talk with the mediator to testify whether I had no care and response to him? My son is young but his language development is at least in the 4 years old child level.


    Many thanks!

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    Default Re: How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    First step: Retain a lawyer to represent you.

    Second step: Follow your lawyer's advice.

    We don't have enough information to advise you on how to present your case in court and, even if we did, your history suggests that you need a professional advocate.

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    Default Re: How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    My attorney already signed off. I have difficulties to hire one since the child support is so high to me.

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    Default Re: How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    Your three year old will not testify in court. That is an incredibly unrealistic desire. The supervisor is not there to make money off a three year old. The supervisor is there because, as you mentioned, you have DV misdemeanor and have been ordered to have supervised visits.

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    Default Re: How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    Quote Quoting fairca
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    My question involves a child custody case from the State of: CA

    I have been in supervised visitation for 2 years and 3 months. I had misdemeanor domestic violence to my ex 2 and half years ago. But no any hurt to my son and no restraining order to my son either.

    The supervisor was writing letters to the court several issues:
    1. did not watch out toy age adequacy to my son.
    2. I did not follow her advise to set limit to my child's activity such as when my son got sleepy he began to attack other child. What hell is this theory?
    3. I had no response to my child's activity. This is obviously lying.
    It's perception. Not lying.

    I can not let this supervisor's lying continues to ruin my bonding between my son and me. I want to write a motion to the judge to change this supervisor for several reasons:
    1. the supervisor's organization is closed last year for their budget issue. I want my son to be supervised by some currently active organization.
    Unlikely to happen.

    2. I am not satisfied with her service. Every weekend it is very hard to schedule the appointment, she always call back several hours later to make the appointment since she is working only part time because her organization is closed.
    Not the court's problem.

    3. She continues to mention the same thing happened one years ago in the latest report and lie in the report.
    So what happened a year ago?

    4. She told me more than 3 times not going to court since it is wasting of time and money. She told me she sets up the rule in the court.

    I want to hear you guys advises on this. I never imagine that in this democracy county that some court ordered supervisor can make use of a near 3 years old boy to make money. Can I ask my son to talk with the mediator to testify whether I had no care and response to him? My son is young but his language development is at least in the 4 years old child level.


    Many thanks!

    That you'd put your child in the middle is actually reprehensible.

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    Default Re: How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    I mean ask the mediator to talk with my child. Ask his opinions about the visitation. He is big enough to express his opinions.

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    Thanks Dogmatique,

    There is nothing special happened last year. Just those so called toy adequacy problem the supervisor mentioned. Those toys were not actually causing any problem. After the supervisor mentioned to me, I did not buy any toys beyond my son's age.

    My most important concern is to leave this supervisor. she is definitely trying to keep me there. During these two years, there were nothing wrong with the visitation. She just keep reporting small things which is nothing related to possible violence to my son. I think I am not there to be a perfect father to be unsupervised. I am a normal father, I will like any father to learn how to breed a boy in the best way.

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    Default Re: How to Complain About the Supervisor of Supervised Visitation

    She just keep reporting small things
    what "small things"?


    She continues to mention the same thing happened one years ago in the latest report and lie in the report
    what happened then?



    if you continue to evade these questions nobody can begin to help you.

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