My question involves child support in the State of: California
I am currently going though a Divorce. I had a verbal agreement with my sons mother on Child Support before filing any divorce paper work. We first had the visitation hearing with a mediator. Then a court appointment with the judge. I thought we had an agreement on everything, but during the court appearance. She requested more money for Child Support. The judge gave us another court date - for Jan 2014!. She said she was going to give us time to come to an agreement. My question is - If I stop the child support payments until told by the court on what to pay. Can I get hit with back child support? I have copies of all the checks I've been giving her for over a year. Can I request to get that money back? Thanks for you service.

