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    Default Can I Sue My Ex-Girlfriend for Getting Restraining Orders Against Me

    My question involves restraining orders in the State of: Illinois

    Hello, all.

    I recently broke the chain on restraining orders that have been placed on me since December of 2011.
    I found out that I had dissociated my memories of a particular individual due to negligent infliction of emotional distress by my ex-girlfriend (Person A).
    She's an idiot, but she can be emotionally and physically abusive.

    November 29th, 2011 - I snap on Person A because she stresses me out in relation to an FBI report I made (I consider that she conspired against me with someone)
    November 30th, 2011 - A restraining order is placed on me; I undergo dysphoric mania and dissociate my memories of the person and the FBI report
    December 14th, 2011 - That restraining order is dismissed
    December 15th, 2011 - I'm still undergoing dysphoric mania, yet the thing that made the problems with the relationship were suppressed via dissociative amnesia...
    April 2nd, 2012 - After months of trying to patch things up with my ex-gf, she files for a restraining order against me
    May 20th-something - I am able to talk to her, and she says she's filing against me because she is mad at me
    June something, 2012 - A plenary order of protection is placed against me
    October something, 2012 - I come across the person (Person B) who I filed the FBI report against (whoops); she slaps me with a restraining order
    November something, 2012 - Person B contacts Person A, and Person B goes into a catastrophic nervous breakdown: she has seizures.
    December 14th, 2012 - A hearing occurs whereby I notice I have a false memory of her: My attorney does not notice... *rolls eyes*
    December 14th, 2012 onward - I begin to notice that my ex-girlfriend negligently inflicted emotional distress onto me, which caused me to dissociate and undergo dysphoric mania, which led me to talking to the person I filed the FBI report (as I had forgotten I filed against her... I hit her up in an attempt to date her), which led to another restraining order...

    And the cycle finished... Very cyclical, really..

    HERE IS/ARE THE QUESTION(S):

    1. What should I do now?
    2. Can I sue my ex-girlfriend?
    3. Can I sue the person I made the FBI report against for fraud?
    4. Can I sue anyone else who has slandered, libeled, and harassed me?
    5. Can I at least get my attorney fees back?
    6. Who do I sue?

    In terms of English law, if I understand correctly, I've broken the chain.
    However, I'm in the U.S.A.

    Wikilink to breaking the chain: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breaking_the_chain

    Also, I want to thank all of you who've helped teach me and school me in law.

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    Default Re: I Broke the Chain on the Restraining Orders Placed on Me

    from reading your post it is quite clear you have a limited grasp on what is going on around you, attempting to file any lawsuits would be a bad idea except under the specific advise of an attorney, you could end up in more trouble if you attempt to do so on your own and get sanctioned by the court

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    Default Re: I Broke the Chain on the Restraining Orders Placed on Me

    My dysphoric mania has ended for the most part, if that is what you mean by having "a limited grasp on what is going on around" me. I have stabilized. As such, I believe I have more of a grasp of what is going on around me. However, if I understand law correctly, I am not liable for what happened between Person A and Person B, as it was Person A's fault.

    I have one attorney "card" left, and he is the attorney of whom I put on Person A in an attempt to fight the restraining order.
    If I understand how the "chain" works in English law, then Person A is responsible for all of it... again, I am in the U.S..

    Furthermore, I was under emotional distress while filing the FBI report. However, I attempted to write it to the best of my knowledge, which was affected because of emotional distress. Regardless, two years have passed since I have filed it. The statute of limitations has run up.

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    Default Re: I Broke the Chain on the Restraining Orders Placed on Me

    1. What should I do now?
    2. Can I sue my ex-girlfriend?
    3. Can I sue the person I made the FBI report against for fraud?
    4. Can I sue anyone else who has slandered, libeled, and harassed me?
    5. Can I at least get my attorney fees back?
    6. Who do I sue?
    1) Nothing
    2) No
    3) No
    4) you have provided nothing which would approach being a viable slander case
    5) no, and if you keep it up expect to be paying other people's attorney fees as well
    6) yourself would be your best bet.


    bonus answer to the question you didn't ask but should have:

    If you keep violating restraining orders and keep harassing your ex you will end up in jail.

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    Default Re: I Broke the Chain on the Restraining Orders Placed on Me

    Get the psychiatric care you need, and move on with your life.

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    PSHAW!!!

    The ex-girlfriend has a history of mentally and physically abusing men. She harassed me multiple times. I have phone records of her calling me multiple times when I did not want her to during the time of the relationship. Furthermore, I had told her before I snapped that she stresses me out.

    Excuse me!

    Furthermore, I have collected evidence that she filed the second restraining order out of malicious intent!
    She told me on the phone herself that she was doing it, because she was mad at me! I could not record the telephone conversation, as it would have been a felony!

    Furthermore, I have reason to believe the person I reported to the FBI has a history of directly or indirectly harassing individuals with mental illness issues, as I believe the individual's mother led to the suicide of one of her daughter's friends!

    That mother has to be a PSYCHOPATH! She harassed me?! She harasses me and lets her daughter get high, do heroin, and date a guy who she hustles drugs for and does heroin with?! YOU MUST BE KIDDING ME? I'M THE DANGEROUS PERSON? HOLY !@#$!!! Her mom is insane. She threatened me with alleged illegal police force, and I have a history of using ADHD/amphetamine-group drugs (before I went off them). Do you know what those do to you?

    THEY GIVE YOU PARANOID DELUSIONS OF PROSECUTION!

    The hell I will sue myself!!!
    You're all pissed off that I beat the system.

    I need NO psychiatric care. I'm a damn neuroscientist. Go figure, huh? I'd be intelligent enough to break the chain.

    The first time my ex-girlfriend filed the restraining order... I could see it... but then it was dismissed!

    It was right then that I should have sued her. I was advised to sue her. I did not sue her, because I did not believe such punishment would mend the relationship problems!

    But the second time? NO WAY!
    I made no threats of harm or confinement


    No, my ex-girlfriend is physically and emotionally abusive to men. Simple as that. I HAVE EVIDENCE FROM HER BOYFRIENDS THEMSELVES!

    She also has bi-sexual tendencies, has a habit of somewhat dressing like a dyke, and she is a past rape victim. She is abusive toward men! Simple as that. I HAVE WITNESSES WHO CAN ATTEST TO HER PAST AND HER BEHAVIOR!

    Am I harassing my ex-girlfriend?
    NOT IN THE SLIGHTEST!

    I read about the domestic violence act! I read the law. I learned the loopholes. I beat the system.
    At no time did I harass my ex-girlfriend! At no time did I violate the restraining order!
    I specifically asked people things about her that occurred before the restraining orders were placed on me.
    I specifically told them not to talk to her on my behalf, as I do not want any of my communications to be sent to her.
    I did not ask for any information that occurred during or after the restraining orders were placed on me.

    I understand deterministic behavior. I reviewed my past, my life history, and the people I've met.
    I spent over a year beating this restraining order.

    I refuse to be belittled for wrongful prosecution directed toward me.

    Both of those restraining orders are going to be gone in a month's time, tops.

    I have a teleology and deterministic evidence: Physical evidence.

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    Default Re: I Broke the Chain on the Restraining Orders Placed on Me

    Quote Quoting untouchedworld
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    PSHAW!!!

    The ex-girlfriend has a history of mentally and physically abusing men. She harassed me multiple times. I have phone records of her calling me multiple times when I did not want her to during the time of the relationship. Furthermore, I had told her before I snapped that she stresses me out.

    Excuse me!

    Furthermore, I have collected evidence that she filed the second restraining order out of malicious intent!
    She told me on the phone herself that she was doing it, because she was mad at me! I could not record the telephone conversation, as it would have been a felony!

    Furthermore, I have reason to believe the person I reported to the FBI has a history of directly or indirectly harassing individuals with mental illness issues, as I believe the individual's mother led to the suicide of one of her daughter's friends!

    The hell I will sue myself!!!
    You're all pissed off that I beat the system.

    I need NO psychiatric care. I'm a damn neuroscientist. Go figure, huh? I'd be intelligent enough to break the chain.

    You're excused.

    Go get the help you so very obviously need.

    You're welcome.

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