It's either that he's busy or he's not ready to "give up his life". So he does that while I am home raising our child. He is out having fun and dating and partying and rarely calling or asking about his child but blaming me for his absence even though I have begged him to see him and even told him I will bring him any day. When he goes I supply everything he needs. I am pretty sure it will be this way for a long time because he thinks he is doing everything perfectly.
He is supposed to get 1 week during the summer and give 30 day notice. I don't feel like he should be able to do that firstly because he didn't even give adequate notice. I feel it needs to be changed because he has shown that he can't fulfill the duties assigned to him in the original plan. He shouldn't be allowed to do anything I'm uncomfortable with the same way I don't do anything he isn't comfortable with. I am definitely going to look into a change, because him being in and out is not good for my child.