My question is simple. Me and the guy I have been dating for two years absolutely love florida. We want to move there because we love the environments and what it could offer my kids. My ex husband has not seen my kids until very recently when his child support increased and he feels the only way to lower the child support is to see the kids. We just want a better life for our kids and ourselves and feel like we can make a real go of the situation. There is nothing in the divorce papers about moving out of state or limitations but we do have joint custody and he does pay child support just not alot of vistation. What are my chances? I'm miserable in Tennessee and feel like I can get a fresh start from Florida and the guy i've been dating has had a job offer. There again, someone says that we have to be married. I don't want to force something that we're not ready for as far as marriage but will be working toward in the future. Can we use a playing card of letting my ex husband lower the child support if he lets us go to florida and what kinds of changes are courts looking for to grant permission as i know my ex will try to stop us. Not because he cares, just because it's drama....his favorite food.