I have a custody case coming up, actually it is tomorrow. I know for a fact that it is going to be tranferred to a different county(ultimatley adjourned). I can not take time off of work tomorrow and called the courthouse to tell them that, but they said it is up to the plaintiff's attorney to agree to postpone it, which I know he wont do. Last month he didn't show up to court and it was adjourned - why do the attorney's get to be no-shows but if a defendant does that they would loose their kids! What is the worse that would happen if I called and said I can't go, I am not lying, I really can't without losing my job. I can call in if they need to since it is only going to be adjourned anyway - it doesn't make any sence that they force me to appaear just to tranfer it, nothing is going to be done in the court that day or even at all in that county. What should I do?