Most current custudy order states that I get my child every other weekend and one day per week etc. It also states that education and medical decisions will be mutually agreed upon. It also states that she is to allow me telephonic communication once per day. The order also states that she is to not speak illy of The NCP. I had my daughter living with me 9 years, we never went to court we dealt with things outside of court. I was always reasonable to her requests. My daughter was coming into the time of puberty and her mother and I spoke and she expressed that she would like to help and be there to ease our daughter into womanhood. Teaching her to shave and deal with her female issues. I obliged and we switched custody. Now she won't let me see nor talk to my child. I was able to pick her up once after she received the contempt (we go to court feb 5) and my daughter wrote me a note stating her mother said that I never wanted to see her and didn't love her and told her I never called or emailed. I am highly concerned for my daughters welfare. Her mother is alienated me from her and its not just harming me is harming my daughter. She lived with me for 9 yyears, I coached her tball and baseball, we camped and I even did girl scouts wiith her. She and I were very close. Now she has taken her out of public school against my wishes and is planning to homeschool her. I did not agree to this and the custody agreement states that all educational decisions are to be agreed upon or mediation is required.
The contempt that I have already filed was because she won't let me see nor speak to my daughter and that she is slandering me and encouraging my daughter to also. She is saying my daughter has a choice whether or not to see me and the order states otherwise. My daughter is affraid to say she wants to see me because her mom gets upset. When my daughter did come over her mother called her atleast 6 times per day. She is almost 13 and her mother is being very childish. Once of the times she called my daughter crying and telling her that her mother in law was being mean to her! She is treating her. Like a confidant and friend not as our daughter. My daughter is very confused. She believed her mom when shesaid I didn't want to see her.
Do I need to filea seperate contempt for her pulling her out of school without my consent? Do you think they will give me primary residence back as she has only had her 1 year and does not seem to be able to handle the responsibilities as a CP. I would not and never have attempted to keep my daughter from her. My daughter has also received several referrals and a suspension since she has lived with her mother. Her grades have fallen to Ds. She had no issues in school she made As and Bs with an occasional C and never got a referral nor suspension.
Do I file a modification of time sharing?

