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    Default Being Called a Stalker

    My question involves defamation in the state of: my ex is calling me a stalker. ive never drove by her house without her knowing. never sat and waited for her anywhere. never done anything of sort. in fact i have multiple written statement by many people stating that she kinda stalked me. anyways what can i do

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    Default Re: Being Called a Stalker

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    My question involves defamation in the state of: my ex is calling me a stalker. ive never drove by her house without her knowing.
    If she didn't know, she wouldn't be able to call you a stalker ... clearly she was freaked out by your driving by and letting her know. Stalking does not require that she be oblivious to your actions, only that the actions cause her concern for her safety or that they might give a reasonable person cause to have such concerns.

    Could this behavior be why she has disconnected her phone and email? This illuminates why you have not had contact for a year and why she has limited her contact with you.

    never sat and waited for her anywhere. never done anything of sort. in fact i have multiple written statement by many people stating that she kinda stalked me. anyways what can i do
    If charged with a crime, you can hire an attorney. If she serves you with court papers (maybe a restraining order) you can answer it and hire an attorney.

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    Default Re: Being Called a Stalker

    she is telling people this. and what i meant about that is if i did go by the house she invited me over.

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    what i meant by that is i never just drove by unless she invited me

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    Default Re: Being Called a Stalker

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    she is telling people this
    Again, what people?

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    Default Re: Being Called a Stalker

    ... And why do they believe her, and what has been the consequence to you (if any)?

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    Default Re: Being Called a Stalker

    she is telling co workers and customers at the grocery store she works in. ive addressed this to the district manager and havent got anywhere yet

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    some do and some dont. and its hurting my character. im known in my town and not for anything negative.

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    Default Re: Being Called a Stalker

    She is telling you that you're a stalker, or she's saying that to others? If the latter, who are the others? (In general terms - neighbors, her family, it's something she said in a custody proceeding....)

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