My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Minnesota
I have a daughter with a crazy woman. We were never married and my daughter is 7 years old now. A year ago, I moved to different state for a job and ever since thing got worst. I met this beautiful lady (she is my wife now) and decided to settle down with her. My daughter's mom found out that I was dating another woman and she started threatening me and told me that I would not be able to see my daughter or talk to her on phone. Last time I saw my daughter was 7 months ago. I have not been able to talk to her or see her. I live 12 hrs away (drive) from her. Because of my financial situation and other problems, I was not been able to make trip up there. But I know even If I had made it, she would not let me see her. Finally things are getting better on my side and I am planning to go up there end of this month and file for visitation right.
When I go up there, I am planning to go see my daughter at her school during lunch hour. That's probably the only way to see her. Now I have a question!
After her school gets over, what If I pick her up and take her out to movie or something and drop her off later to her mom's place? Will I get in trouble for that? I do not want that crazy woman to know that I will be in the town. Because it's obvious she won't let me see her. Neither of us have legal custody papers. Yes, I have been paying child support. My daughter loves me more than her crazy mom. And I do not have any history of drug abuse/alcohol or abusive behavior.
Thank you everyone! I really appreciate your help!

