Thank your for your help! I appreciate it! I know lawyers have made my husband more suspicious of my debts. Advising him to close our bank account and opening one with his name only. They convinced him, I might be stashing money and running!
Far from the truth, nothing I have in debts was at all for ME! Grown children that need help sometimes, my 12 year daughter, buying clothes, etc.
3 girls cost a lot of money, a wedding 2 years ago. I've tried to take care of it all myself.
Then I was suspicious of him, thinking he's trying to get everything in order to leave me. It hurt and scared me. But, it's backfired on that lawyer, it's opened my eyes of loving my husband more and not wanting to lose him.
We've actually gotten closer, but deep down still a fear of losing him.
That's why I'm fearful of being homeless, if someone came along and took my husband from me.
If credit card debts are only in my name is he liable for the debts at all?
They aren't even in his name at all.
Thank you for the advise of the debt consolidation! I do have excellent credit so I've transferred balances to 0% interest for a year. And I'll continue to, until paid off. And cards are put away, not cut up, because they will need to be closed when paid off.
Thank you!
Pam

