My question involves restraining orders in the State of: IN

My attorney filed PO petition during the course of our divorce, which dragged on for over two years. The decree came in last month; the house is to be sold and I have no funds for moving til then or something breaks for the better. He made two threats of bankrupting me through the divorce that are recorded. We have children so there was some contact, but I cut it off because conversing with him is a waste of time. He currently has a charge of invasion of privacy; I sent a recording to the prosecutor's office earlier today as he came bounding into the house a while back, yelling and screaming that I was "destroying people's lives" and that he "wouldn't stop" (his behavior) until I didn't have the "right to walk the dirt" anymore. Frankly, I am sick nearly to death of waking up to this stupid drama everyday and he refuses to pay on a support judgment, more legal fees to finally get his 15 hour weekly check docked.

So today, I get a copy of a letter from his attorney. He plans to quit paying utility bills and wants credit for future mortgage payments against my award. I WANT OUT, but not to have to live in the streets, etc. Already called the realtor HE wanted to get the sale rolling; learned I was the only one to make contact. I am finally figuring out (attorney) demands don't necessarily reflect what a judge might order. I am just wondering if I can approach some of these demands through the protective order. My car is breaking down a LOT and it is making it hard for me to keep my job. I am in the middle of nowhere and there are no places I can walk or bike to for work. And if I could keep my car running (like with the judgment $$) I could get another job and get out. He is intentionally trying to freak me out, knowing I am subject to panic attacks and I know he is angry because he didn't succeed in scaring me out of the house to begin with. But he is also dead serious, he has severe gambling issues and I realize (finally) that has driven a lot of past problems.

Our divorce decree: completely silent on possession and costs. Attorney said PO protects my possession "rights" as long as it is in force. The provisional order (pro se) he was responsible for payments. My attorney bailed because I insisted on filing a post decree motion after finding evidence of fraud and more extensive gambling than previously known. Should I or is there something I can file, or do I wait for the lights to go out? I'm tired of his threats and he violated the provisional order by cutting off about $200 worth of services a month; my attorney did nothing. I am angry, because despite his increased income from violating THAT order, he also continued violating the one directing he pay me the support he owed. And now he wants more. I wanted out because I have been through this stuff with him and it seems the person doing harm gets away with it. I would be better off without the award and re-earning my losses, but need a place to start. The street or my car ISN'T it.