I appreciate all the responses, thank you very much for your time. I have been thinking about this and trying to see his side, determine my goals, and work towards a solution with him. I am in the process of trying to find another attorney to handle the case. I expected him to follow the mediated agreement he signed (silly me!) and I know that my only course of action is to further persue this legally as my attempts to work with him are unsuccessful.
I have in the past handed copies of expenses to him only to have him say he never received them. I have now made copies to send via email, since he just last week started paying a few of the <$20 expenses ( I suspect since he reinitiated this with his attorney). I have also kept track of all dates I have kept the kids that were to be his.
I understand completely about the girlfriend issues, etc. I appreciate someone playing devils advocate as that is the best way to look at this somtimes.![]()
I am seeking child support through the Dept of Revenue but have not heard back yet. He does make over $30xxx more than I do (and though it doesn't matter, shares expenses with his gf, while I am on my own) but can never contribute to any of the kids expenses, which is why I seek the support.
I guess now I will allow it to go to mediation again and work from there. Is it ok to go to mediation without legal counsel or is that highly advised against?

