My question involves defamation in the state of: Florida

My wife had an affair with her boss and he is an elected official. Even her family agree that he is a predator taking advantage of her being naive. She is at fault because she could have said no, and she is suffering, because the guilt has put her in a psych ward at a local hospital. This man needs to be brought forth and i am going to let hiis wife know.

My question is it ok to let her colleagues at work know through email and even the mayor since he and her boss dont get along?