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dmarshpmk
I feel so sorry for you because I'm going through the same thing right now. The immigration laws seem to be stacked against U.S. citizens in such cases.
I live in Dallas, but met my Bulgarian wife in Dubai where I work frequently. We got married in Bugaria in 2004 when I was 46 and she was 29 (I thought I got lucky too). She arrived in the U.S. on 10/13/2004 (the date of her conditional resident visa) and acted like she hated the U.S.
She worked from Jan-05 through May-05 and then went back to Bulgaria for nearly four months! After returning, she found Bulgarian Friends in Dallas and started an affair in Jan-06. It took me until the day after Valantine's Day to discover it with phone records, photos (from her computer and camera) and later, e-mails I had translated. I have wrote to the local director of Homeland Security about this and included the proof (but with no response). Given that she went back to Bulgaria (again) on 3/21/06, I followed up with another letter to DHS documenting that she has only been in the country for a total of 13-1/2 months (yet we've been married for one year and almost 11 months).
Several e-mails clearly show that she was checking with attorneys about getting a divorce so she could go to immigration on her own and get a waiver in order to have the conditions removed from her visa. These were all written before I discovered the affair. I'm trying to drag the divorce out past July 13 (by which time I understand the I-751 must be filed to have conditions removed).
No one can seem to point me to my rights on this matter or where to go for help.