First of thank you for responding so quicklyOkay so basically YES file married/joint. Seems like it is in our best interest,how long it takes makes no difference when we are going to get her full refund due to her. And as far as the witholding, not going to make much difference if she has it at 0 or 3 then? Only reason I asked about the withholding is because I have read that adjusting hers to 0 and mine to 3(our children), can in turn result in the entire refund being due to my wife,because she paid in more tax than I.
And we are going to seek help with the entire return to ensure it is all done correctly.

