First, if it isn't about money, give it up. That is all a court can give you.


He had treated me thus for far too long while i wasn't able to understand that it was wrong, but today i am able to realize and state to whoever would care to listen that he is an asshole and a coward. What are my options here? Needless to say he is being totally irresponsible toward society here although he has had a convienient excuse every step of the way
It's not illegal or actionable to be an asshole or a coward (in general).

From your second post, it looks like you simply need to continue with therapy and put this in the past. You do nothing by "hurting" those that you feel hurt you. It slows you down. It drags you down. It prevents you from going forward with your life until your "vengeance" has been served, which may never happen. In the mean time, you lose your life. If you can;t get over this without help, then seek help but you do nothing for yourself by dwelling on what was so strongly that you do not see what is or what could be.

Not really sure how he is being irresponsible to society, but since he lives outside of my country and has no effect on my life, I don;t really care, nor should you.