My question involves child support in the State of: New York
in 2004 The mother of my Son file for child support, at the Time I was living in another state and was financialy able to meet the court appointed amount. For the enxt 2 years we battle i ncourt to set a reasonalbe amount since my incmoe was 100% commison base and was to be determein by my income tax fillings and not the assumption of what i could make. Durring the same time the comapny I was working with file for bankrupcy and I lost my job. Having no job but still some saving and a Permanaet resendcy status, I had to ask for a adjsutment of my childsupport, this did not sit well with the mother of my child so she asked for more moeny, nad also asked for me to cover daycare so she can go back to school. I was okey with everthgin till things got out of hand and I was nto able to see my child. Till now I have never seen my son nad its imposible to communicate with him over the phone. I no longer have my permanet resendcy status and I am back ot my home country. I have been trying to find a way to get this settle base on my current income that is not in USD dolars. Unfortunity I cnat afford my childsupport amount so i have fallen i narrears. I need to find a formula that works for the both of us for my son to be able to have a father.
My sons mother refuses to let my family living in New York see my son since she saids I am in arrears, this is not fair for him, he feels he has no family.
His mother and I never had a formal relationship we where dating..and not commited to a relatiosnhip When she found out about her pregnacy she decided not to share this with me until her last trymester..(I started to help). In my opnion when she realize she could get mroe moeny from me then what i was giving(350 usd permotnh) she took me to court.
All is fine I have no bad feelings I jsut need a way to settle an amount so that I can some day be able to meet my son. He is now 8 years old and when ocasionally I ma able ot talk to him first thing he asks is when will we meet. he askes me if i cna pick him up and he is jsut to small to understnad I cant visit him and his mother does not feel she needs to bring him my country so he can meet his father, grnad father and other siblings.

I cant afford US lawyers fees nad there is no lawyer here in my country licneses to pratice in NY that cna advise me... please provide advise.....
All I am lloking for is for a way to see my son and provide him with the little i cna give him but with sometign in reture that is a face to face relationship not over the phone.sorry for the typos...